Why is fitting in so important?

Why are people always so worried about "fitting in" with others?  Doesn't it make more sense to embrace the things that make us unique and share those abilities with others willing to learn more about them?

Imagine for a second if we all looked the same, we all dressed the same, we all had the same profession, we all ate the same food and spoke the same language with the same customs.  What would this do to the concept of Art? How could we strive to be 'better' or 'superior' if we were all the same like a bunch of carbon copied robots?

Instead, society teaches us to hate that which we don't understand or that which is different. Why? Doesn't it make more sense to embrace those differences in the 'other' and try to enlighten ourselves more learning and respecting this unique being? Is it better to vanquish them instead as not to corrupt or cloud the robotic gene pool?

And what about the one who's 'too fabulous' to fit in? They're left to face a world of lonliness, hatred, scorn, and ridicule just because they don't meet the status quo?  If the Christian God created us all in his own image then which of the two beings is or is not the element to build friendship with and why? Technically they're all god's creatures right? Don't they have a right to be happy too so long as they're not harming others?

So what is the harm of two male doves falling in love and spending the rest of their lives together? You know this happens in real life right now as we speak right? Should we shoot and kill them because they don't fit the norm? Are they harming the other doves?  Last I checked they were supposed to be the symbol of peace so why should we care about their gender? Do they molest other baby doves and can't be trusted at a baby sitter? If a neighbor parent dies, would the other doves prevent those males from nurturing and raising the dead parent's children regardless of who they choose to love?

How many of you reading this know the true difference between SEX and LOVE? SEX is something you do with the shit between your legs. LOVE is something you do with your mind and your heart!

So what's the difference between the words "PLAY" and "INTIMACY" when it comes to the Gay Bear community? Which of them is more likely to lead to a future spending the rest of their lives with one another?  Do you play or do you get intimate?

Next, if you were going to have a picnic would you only invite your Gay friends? Your Str8 friends? or Both? And WHY?

Yes, these are truly things that make ya go hummmm with wonderment huh?

Hate group leader vs. Log Cabin Republican about Romney

Hate group leader vs. Log Cabin Republican about Romney

Yardwork is such fun

Spring is here and it's time to take down all the overgrown hedges so the people can walk along the sidewalk oh joy better do it before we get a citation for having it blocked.

Facebook fails, but blogger works?? Go figure!

Welcome to the Dallas-Gayborhood

Welcome to a new place on the internet for people who live or visit the Cedar Springs part of Dallas, TX often!

Some of us are young, some are older than shit, and some are just hiding the fact that they age at all. Yeah you go girrrlll.

If you're looking for a chance to connect to others right here in the city, then freely enter our Dallas-Gayborhood online forum. No worries and no labels here. Don't care what you classify your sexual identity as. Just interested in meeting and greeting new faces and meeting face to face.

Do take the time to say "Hello World" and introduce yourself instead of sitting there on your fat ass too chicken to be social.

No, we don't want your money, we don't want your transportation and we have no interest in sucking up for a new place to live. 
We're established and responsible hard working people and have no interest in kissing your ass to earn your friendship. We have no interest in exposing your private life to your boss or whomever you might be hiding it from at the moment.

Then again, if you're too rude or too fucking stupid to be polite to others then you can be sure we'll set your sorry-ass straight in no time. So act your age and not your shoe size. 
And one more thing before you go,,, BLESS YOUR HEART !!!!

ENTER OUR FORUMS

Just when you thought you saw it all!

  Wouldn't ya just know it! Just when you thought you've saw seen it all you run into this!  Now all I need to know is if I can get them on Amazon and start sending them out as gifts to some people who may desperately need them.

Formed a TBI Brain Injury Group on MEETUP

Well today, I decided to form a TBI Brain Injury Support Group using the Meetup system.  Why? Well, it forces members to reply to event notifications and I can include the monthly meetings that they have at Baylor (BIR) to keep people involved etc.

In addition, I will also consider doing a monthly meet and greet meeting at Buzz Brews where members can show up for coffee and share ideas and stuff with one another.

The reason for all of this is because the federal gov. HIPPA law prevents care giving groups to remain in contact of their old patients once they have been released.  In some ways to the TBI patient this can seem like punishment not having others to stay connected to that can relate to things.  So, hopefully this may help take the edge off the loneliness factor allowing the elders and the newbies to share things.